It’s a common truth that as we grow up, friendships often evolve, and not everyone stays close from childhood into adulthood. Demi Lovato recently shed light on the status of her relationship with former childhood friend Selena Gomez, indicating that their once tight bond has dissolved.

Speaking with Harper’s Bazaar for the magazine’s May issue, Demi addressed the fluctuating nature of her connection with Selena, particularly highlighting Selena’s response to Demi’s poignant Grammys tribute performance of “Anyone.” Following Demi’s emotionally charged rendition, Selena took to Instagram to express admiration and support, praising Demi’s courage and resilience in the face of adversity.

While Selena’s gesture was heartfelt, Demi revealed that she didn’t reciprocate the sentiment publicly or directly. Explaining her silence, Demi shared, “When you grow up with somebody, you’re always going to have love for them. But I’m not friends with her, so it felt …” Though Demi didn’t complete her thought, it’s evident that the situation brought about some discomfort for her. Despite the distance between them, Demi emphasized that she still holds affection for Selena and wishes her nothing but happiness and success.

Selena has remained relatively silent on the matter in recent times, but Demi’s remarks suggest that their friendship has reached its conclusion.